While we don't necessarily agree with the opinions in the following article, we thank their author for the research on the usages of A.A. and "Recovery" or "Recovered" or "Cured." See our titles, Cured: Proven Help for Alcoholics and Addicts and When Early AAs Were Cured and Why. www.dickb.com/titles.shtml.
Each of the first three AAs was a Christian, had studied the Bible, and returned to God for help at the time of their surrender. All three specifically said they had been cured! See Big Book pages 179-81 and 191 as well as my books specified above.
Instead of putting a spin on A.A. and recovery, or A.A. and recovered, or A.A. and cured, we suggest the suffering person pull out a dictionary and see what cured really means. Then turn to the Bible--whence came the basic ideas of A.A.--and see how frequently people were there cured by the power of God.
Enough said. And here's the study of A.A. and recovery:
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How often have you been asked by a well-meaning A.A. friend, "Are you
recovering or are you recovered"?
This little chip of a document may throw some light upon your grasp of the
question and its answer.
We have searched our Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) for the root recover. We
found it 82 times.
Within the context of Alcoholics Anonymous, the synonyms restored or healed
are usually an appropriate definition of recover.
For those who seek a cure, the root cure occurs only 4 times in the Big Book,
and in no instance does it mean that the fundamental cause or malady is
completely taken away—sorry.
Nor does the Big Book allow us to sneak the impression that we are normal
folk again, and that we can drink like they do. It is clear that eternal
vigilance is the shield. If you consider yourself "recovering" in order to
maintain the consciousness that you must never drink, so be it.
If you consider yourself "recovered" because the Big Book says that's the way
we get, then so be that, too.
Either way you will be a winner—you won't drink, and you will base your
program of recovery on the teachings of the Big Book.
Here are the 82 sentences in which recover appears.
Decide for yourself whether the authors of the Big Book think you are
recovering or recovered.
Big Book sentences containing RECOVER
1) The Story of How Many Thousands of Men and Women Have Recovered from
Alcoholism. [Big Book, title page]
2) Because this book has became the basic
text for our Society and has helped such large numbers of alcoholic men and
women to recovery, there exists a sentiment against any radical changes being
made in it. [Big Book, page xi, line 9]
3) Therefore, the first portion of
this volume, describing the A.A. recovery program, has been left untouched in
the course of revisions made for both the second and the third editions. [Big
Book, page xi, line 12]
4) WE, of Alcoholics Anonymous, are more than one
hundred men and women who have recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of mind
and body. [Big Book page xiii, line 2]
5) To show other alcoholics precisely
how we have recovered is the main purpose of this book. [Big Book, page xiii,
line 5]
6) Sixteen years have elapsed between our first printing of this
book and the presentation in 1955 of our second edition. In that brief space,
Alcoholics Anonymous has mushroomed into nearly 6,000 groups whose membership is
far above 150,000 recovered alcoholics. [Big Book page xv, line 9]
7) By the
end of 1939 it was estimated that 800 alcoholics were on their way to recovery.
[Big Book, page xiii, line 14]
8) He sobered, never to drink again up to the
moment of1his death in 1950. This seemed to prove that one alcoholic could
affect another as no nonalcoholic could. It also indicated that strenuous work,
one alcoholic with another, was vital to permanent recovery [Big Book page xvi,
line 32]
9) Hence the two men set to work almost frantically upon alcoholics
arriving in the ward of the Akron City Hospital. Their very first case, a
desperate one, recovered immediately and became A.A. number three. [Big Book
page xvii, line 5]
10) ...public acceptance of A.A. grew by leaps and
bounds. For this there were two principal reasons: the large numbers of
recoveries, and reunited homes. [Big Book, page xx, line 3]
11) The basic
principles of the A.A. program, it appears, hold good for individuals with many
different life-styles, just as the program has brought recovery to those of many
different nationalities. [Big Book, page xixi, line
16]
12) The Twelve
Steps that summarize the program may be called los Doce Pasos in one country,
les Douze Etapes in another, but they trace exactly the same path to recovery
that was blazed by the earliest members of Alcoholics Anonymous. [Big Book, page
xxii, line 21]
13) We of Alcoholics Anonymous believe that the reader will
be interested in the medical estimate of the plan of recovery described in this
book. [Big Book, page xxiii, line 3]
14) In the course of his third treatment
he acquired certain ideas concerning a possible means of recovery. [Big Book,
page xxiii, line 18]
15) This man and over one hundred others appear to have
recovered. [Big Book, page xxiii, line 24]
16) This is repeated over and
over, and unless this person can experience an entire psychic change there is
very little hope of his recovery. [Big Book, page xxvii, line 9]
17) Though
the aggregate of recoveries resulting from psychiatric effort is considerable,
we physicians must admit we have made little impression upon the problem as a
whole. [Big Book, page xxvii, line 25]
18) He had but partially recovered
from a gastric hemorrhage and seemed to be a case of pathological mental
deterioration. [Big Book, page xxix, line 5]
19) The market would recover,
but I wouldn't. [Big Book, page 6, line 17]
20) Nearly all have recovered.
[Big Book, page 17, line 3]
21) Many could recover if they had the
opportunity we have enjoyed. [Big Book, page 19, line 17]
22) Doubtless you
are curious to discover how and why, in the face of expert opinion to the
contrary, we have recovered from a hopeless condition of mind and body. [Big
Book, page 20, line 7]
23) So he turned to this doctor, whom he admired, and
asked him point-blank why he could not recover. [Big Book, page 26, line 19]
24) I have never seen one single case recover, where that state of mind
existed to the extent that it does in you. [Big Book, page 27, line 7]
25)
Further on, clear-cut directions are given showing how we recovered. [Big Book,
page 29, line 4]
26) We learned that we had to fully concede to our
innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery.
[Big Book, page 30, line 13]
27) We know that no real alcoholic ever
recovers control. [Big Book, page 30, line 17]
28) In some instances there
has been brief recovery, followed always by a still worse relapse. [Big Book,
page 31, line 3]
29) We first saw Fred about a year ago in a hospital where
he had gone to recover from a bad case of jitters. [Big Book, page 39, line 22]
30) If a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were sufficient
to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have recovered long ago. [Big Book,
page 45, line 1]
31) Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will
not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who
are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. [Big Book, page
58, line 3]
32) There are those, too, who suffer from great emotional and
mental disorders, but many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be
honest. [Big Book, page 58, line 12]
33) Here are the steps we took, which
are suggested as a program of recovery: [Big Book, page 59, line 8]
34) This
brings us to the Fifth Step in the program of recovery mentioned in the
preceding chapter. [Big Book, page 72, line 12]
35) Small wonder many in the
medical profession have a low opinion of alcoholics and their chance for
recovery! [Big Book, page 73, line 32]
36) To watch people recover, to see
them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about
you, to have a host of friends—this is an experience you must not miss. [Big
Book, page 89, line 9]
37) Perhaps you are not acquainted with any drinkers
who want to recover. [Big Book, page 89, line 6]
38) If he says yes, then
his attention should be drawn to you as a person who has recovered. [Big Book,
page 90, line 23]
39) You should be described to him as one of a fellowship
who, as part of their own recovery, try to help others and who will be glad to
talk to him if he cares to see you. [Big Book, page 90, line 25]
40) But
insist that if he is severely afflicted, there may be little chance he can
recover by himself. [Big Book, page 92, line 20]
41) It is important for him
to realize that your attempt to pass this on to him plays a vital part in your
own recovery. [Big Book, page 94, line 9]
42) If you leave such a person
alone, he may soon become convinced that he cannot recover by himself. [Big
Book, page 96, line 8]
43) He often says that if he had continued to work on
them, he might have deprived many others, who have since recovered, of their
chance. [Big Book, page 96, line 14]
44) He has read this volume and says he
is prepared to go through with the Twelve Steps of the program of recovery. [Big
Book, page 96, line 18]
45) ...and that he is not trying to impose upon you
for money, connections, or shelter. Permit that and you only harm him. You will
be making it possible for him to be insincere. You may be aiding in his
destruction rather than his recovery. [Big Book, page 97, line 2]
46)
Helping others is the foundation stone of your recovery. [Big Book, page
97,
line 5]
47) Should they accept and practice spiritual principles, there is a
much better chance that the head of the family will recover. [Big Book, page 97,
line 30]
48) The man should be sure of his recovery. [Big Book, page 99,
line 20]
49 Let no alcoholic say he cannot recover unless he has his family
back. [Big Book, page 99, line 30]
50) Remind the prospect that his recovery
is not dependent upon people. It is dependent upon his relationship with God.
[Big Book, page 99, line 33]
51) But many of the suggestions given here may
be adapted to help the person who lives with a woman alcoholic—whether she is
still drinking or is recover ing in A.A. [Big Book page 104, line 32]
52) He
knows that thousands of men, much like himself, have recovered. [Big Book, page
113, line 8]
53) Wait until repeated stumbling convinces him he must act,
for the more you hurry him the longer his recovery may be delayed. [Big Book,
page 113, line 13]
54) Yet often such men had spectacular and powerful
recoveries. [Big Book, page 113, line 33]
55) The slightest sign of fear or
intolerance may lessen your husband's chance of recovery. [Big Book, page 120,
line 19]
56) Our women-folk have suggested certain attitudes a wife may take
with her husband who is recovering. [Big Book, page 122, line 3]
57) At the
beginning of recovery a man will take, as a rule, one of two directions. He may
either plunge into a frantic attempt to get on his feet in business, or he may
be so enthralled by his new life that he talks or thinks of little else. [Big
Book, page 125, line 33]]
58) He is striving to recover fortune and
reputation and feels he is doing very well. [Big Book, page 126, line 18]
59) Although financial recovery is on the way for many of us, we found we
could not place money first. [Big Book, page 127, line 15] 60) We have recover
ed, and have been given the power to help others. [Big Book, page 132, line 30]
61) A body badly burned by alcohol does not often recover overnight nor do
twisted thinking and depression vanish in a twinkling. [Big Book, page 133, line
11]
62) We, who have recovered from serious drinking, are miracles of mental
health. [Big Book, page 133, line 14]
63) Whether the family goes on a
spiritual basis or not, the alcoholic member has to if he would recover. [Big
Book, page 135, line 2]
64) He is undoubtedly on the road to recovery. [Big
Book, page 139, line 7]
65) After satisfying yourself that your man wants to
recover and that he will go to any extreme to do so, you may suggest a definite
course of action. [Big Book, page 142, line 31]
66) We all had to place
recovery above everything, We all had to place recovery above everything, [Big
Book, page 14396, line 21]
67) ...for without recovery we would have lost
both home and business. [Big Book, page 143, line 22]
68) Can you have every
confidence in his ability to recover? [Big Book, page 143, line 25]
69)
Naturally this sort of thing decreased the man's chance of recovery. [Big Book,
page 145, line 33]
70) An alcoholic who has recovered, but holds a
relatively unimportant job, can talk to a man with a better position. [Big Book,
page 146, line 22]
71) If he is, and is still trying to recover, he will
tell you about it even if it means the loss of his job. [Big Book, page 146,
line 29]
72) He will appreciate knowing you are not bothering your head
about him, that you are not suspicious nor are you trying to run his life so he
will be shielded from temptation to drink. If he is conscientiously following
the program of recovery he can go anywhere your business may call him. [Big
Book, page 147, line 4]
73) The right kind of man, the kind who recovers,
will not want this sort of thing. He will not impose. [Big Book, page 149, line
29]
74) The age of miracles is still with us. Our own recovery proves that!
[Big Book, page 153, line 14]
75) He has helped other men recover, and is a
power in the church from which he was long absent. [Big Book, page 158, line 25]
76) Understanding our work, he can do this with an eye to selecting those
who are willing and able to recover on a spiritual basis. [Big Book, page 162,
line 13]
77) When a few men in this city have found themselves, and have
discovered the joy of helping others to face life again, there will be no
stopping until everyone in that town has had his opportunity to recover—if he
can and will. [Big Book, Page , line ]
78) One: Our common welfare should
come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity. [Big Book, page 564, line
2]
79) The terms "spiritual experience: and "spiritual awakening" are used
many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality
change sufficient to bring about recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself
among us in many different forms. [Big Book, page 569, line 4]
80) Though it
was not our intention to create such an impression, many acoholics have
nevertheless concluded that in order to recover they must acquire an immediate
and overwhelming "God consciousness" followed at once by a vast change in
feeling and outlook. [Big Book, page 569, line 14]
81) Most emphatically we
wish to say that any alcoholic capable of honestly facing his problems in the
light of our experience can recover, provided he does not close his mind to all
spiritual concepts. [Big Book, page 570, line 8]
82) Willingness, honesty
and open mindedness are the essentials of recovery. But these are indispensable.
[Big Book, page 570, line 13]
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